Here are some tips to consider, to help keep yourself and your family safe:

• Move the furniture and make the surrounding unfamiliar to the abuser.
• Use different lighting. If you used overhead lights, use lamps and timer switches.

• Change your locks and usual point of entry into your home.

• Get a Dog. Small breeds can be very vocal.

• Move your bedroom to another room.

• Keep cans of hairspray handy in each room so that you can spray your attacker and give yourself time to get away.

• Practice "Fire Drills" with your children and make them understand that "Fire" (or any word that you may choose to use) means for them to GET OUT IMMEDIATELY.

• Install motion detector lighting outside your home.

• Alert the neighbors to the vehicle your abuser may own and that they should call 911 should they see your abuser.

• Vary your routine. Shop at different stores. ALWAYS be aware of your surroundings and keep pepper spray in your hand.

• Notify your Employer of the situation and keep your papers with you at all times.

• Notify the local Police Department (especially the Gun Permit Office)that you have a PFA/PO and let them know what kind/color of vehicle your abuser drives.

• Always be aware of your surroundings.

• Drive home taking different routes. Leave a little later/earlier than usual.

• Park in random locations, not in your usual place.

  We are creatures of habit. You must change those habits in order to protect yourself and your family.

• File a copy of your PFA/PO with the school.

• Create a secret password with your children for emergencies (if something happens and auntie must pick them up)

• Make sure the school knows that they are not to allow your abuser to pick up the children.

• Make sure someone meets your children if they ride the bus.

• Check with your Attorney and see if he can get a court order to prevent your abuser from obtainng the BUS MAP to your home (if you have moved) from the school.
  
  LEARN SAFETY and STAY ALIVE!